Acorns to Oaktrees » divorce http://www.oaktrees.org/blog Neefer Sews, Crochets, Crafts, Swims, and Blathers about Kids and Her Stuggles with an Eating Disorder Sat, 11 Feb 2012 01:37:49 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 Pros and Cons http://www.oaktrees.org/blog/archives/3077 http://www.oaktrees.org/blog/archives/3077#comments Sun, 27 Jul 2008 04:03:30 +0000 Neefer http://www.oaktrees.org/blog/?p=3077 Reasons to get divorced.
A. My husband is verbally abusive.
B. I deserve to be with someone who helps me be a better me.

Reasons to stay married.
1. Keep the family intact.
2. I don’t want to fail at marriage.
3. It’s a crappy time to sell the house.

Seriously, that’s what occurs to me.

And so what would I say to a friend who gave those reasons? I’d say that she was giving her children her marriage if she stays in it. I’d say that B is never going to happen with A. I’d say that 2 & 3 were weak reasons. I’d say the family is already broken.

(sigh) :infuriated: :-( :infuriated: :-( :infuriated: :-( :infuriated: :-( :infuriated: :-( :infuriated: :-(

I really want to purge.

That stupid punky moods server is down, so I can’t change it from “amused”. (sigh)

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