Comments on: Handling Grief during the Holidays (after the death of a child) http://www.oaktrees.org/blog/archives/7028 Neefer Sews, Crochets, Crafts, Swims, and Blathers about Kids and Her Stuggles with an Eating Disorder Mon, 07 Feb 2011 07:50:10 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: jaime http://www.oaktrees.org/blog/archives/7028/comment-page-1#comment-110279 jaime Wed, 24 Nov 2010 13:48:59 +0000 http://www.oaktrees.org/blog/?p=7028#comment-110279 It has been almost 9months since the we lost our son.He was a stillborn at 35weeks and it has been a roller coaster ride of emotions for me.Thinking about xmas without him has been very hard.We are also in the middle of a lawsuit and thats a emotional ride itself and all i can do is pray and cry at times over it all.Some times it overwhelming but i know that holding it in isnt good for you either.I am working on alot with me and its a battle at times.I have alot of anger at the doc that is responsible for my sons passing and i hold onto that hate soooo much it over takes me and i break down and loose it all over again. It has been almost 9months since the we lost our son.He was a stillborn at 35weeks and it has been a roller coaster ride of emotions for me.Thinking about xmas without him has been very hard.We are also in the middle of a lawsuit and thats a emotional ride itself and all i can do is pray and cry at times over it all.Some times it overwhelming but i know that holding it in isnt good for you either.I am working on alot with me and its a battle at times.I have alot of anger at the doc that is responsible for my sons passing and i hold onto that hate soooo much it over takes me and i break down and loose it all over again.

]]> By: Rachel black http://www.oaktrees.org/blog/archives/7028/comment-page-1#comment-110092 Rachel black Fri, 11 Dec 2009 23:20:20 +0000 http://www.oaktrees.org/blog/?p=7028#comment-110092 It has been almost 19 years since my daughter passed, the pain ( or rather the hole in my heart) is always there the reaction of suffering is less frequent. Birthdays and holidays are very difficult. Allow yourself the day to react to the loss. Sometimes the reaction is great or sometimes you can get by with just a memory or thought. Be strong ! It has been almost 19 years since my daughter passed, the pain ( or rather the hole in my heart) is always there the reaction of suffering is less frequent. Birthdays and holidays are very difficult. Allow yourself the day to react to the loss. Sometimes the reaction is great or sometimes you can get by with just a memory or thought. Be strong !

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