So today, I went to group and work, and took the kids to the dentist instead of going into my parents house.

It was really hard last night to say to Eina that I wasn’t coming in on Tuesday. When I say goodbye every evening, she looks at me and says, “You are coming in tomorrow?”

But it was really good for me to go to group. I dearly needed the support, and I found out about Sudden Unexplained Death in Children (SUDC).

Then I went to work. That was good for me, too. I really wanted to get a report out before the end of the year, but my manager is okay with it coming out in January.

The funeral home director suggested that we meet him at the mortuary in Alameda instead of us having to drive to Oakland. Little things like this help so much. So I recommend Grant Miller-John Cox Mortuary of Oakland or Greer Family Mortuary of Alameda.